http://amamelina.livejournal.com/ ([identity profile] amamelina.livejournal.com) wrote in [community profile] lkh_lashouts 2007-05-28 01:54 pm (UTC)

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<<Great. Fantastic. LKH couldn't paint a better picture of someone who has been raped and the way they cope, since they all seem to cope in exactly the same way. Hell I'm surprised that Richard's mother isn't out doing the same thing.>>

Oh, she just annoys me! I know for a fact that not everyone goes out after being raped and has sex! I was molested as a kid, and I admit, what happened to me was rather tame, but it was scarring for me and my sister.

A neighbor boy when I was seven taught my sister and I how to french kiss. He locked us in my room and forced us to learn. If we didn't go over to him, he'd pull us over. He was in his teens at the time. My sister and I told our parents the next day, but I sometimes wonder how much worse it could have been if we hadn't. We got lucky.

However, it scarred the both of us. We didn't go out and want to practice kissing on anyone in. In fact, I hated it. I wouldn't let any guy kiss me until I was 18. I didn't want to be reminded of what happened in my bedroom. I was honestly scared to death when any boyfriend leaned in to kiss me.

I may just be projecting, but that's how I always pictured how people react to being violated. They don't want a repeat of it! I do admit, some might, but my own private experience shows me that some of us like to stay away from it.

My sister and I have dealt with this. We're both ok now. But how LKH treats rape victims disgusts me.

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