[i]"In college I had a friend, a girlfriend, a girl who was a friend. She and I went shopping together. Slept over at each other’s dorm rooms. I undressed in front of her because she was a girl. Then toward the end of college she told me she was gay. We were still friends, but she went into that guy category for me. You don’t undress in front of people who see you as a sex object."[/i]
Wow, that's really insulting and amazingly egotistical. Look, sweetheart, if you were her friend, she probably wouldn't view you as a "sex object" even if she was attracted to you, and while this may blow your mind, she might not have actually been attracted to you at all. Being a lesbian doesn't make me want to jump the bones of every female I see, and I can tell you that out of ALL of the LOADS of straight female friends, I've only ever crushed on ONE. Any time anyone says anything like this, my response is always "Don't flatter yourself." But then, this is Anita, how cna she not flatter herself?
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Wow, that's really insulting and amazingly egotistical. Look, sweetheart, if you were her friend, she probably wouldn't view you as a "sex object" even if she was attracted to you, and while this may blow your mind, she might not have actually been attracted to you at all. Being a lesbian doesn't make me want to jump the bones of every female I see, and I can tell you that out of ALL of the LOADS of straight female friends, I've only ever crushed on ONE. Any time anyone says anything like this, my response is always "Don't flatter yourself." But then, this is Anita, how cna she not flatter herself?