There's a horrendous trend towards excluding men in the Pagan community and acting like it's all about women, so I wrote an essay defending guys called "The Need for Masculinity" and posted it on Witchvox. Most of the emails I got were overwhelmingly positive, from men and women. I got two from raging, pissed off feminist/Dianic Wiccans about how I'd betrayed the sisterhood and my gender. And then, Googling the essay as people cross-posted it as there was a permission to redistribute (and I wanted to see the comments they put elsewhere) I came across this hilarious gem:

http://the-goddess.org/blog/2006/08/check-out-this-witchvox-article.html

It will make you choke with laughter or weep for what people like this have corrupted feminism into. There are indeed bad apples amongst Pagans, and they usually have a mask of righteousness.