When I read that, I wondered if it might not be Anita trying to justify her own present behavior by pointing to Big Bads and saying "Look, they do it and get away with it! But I love you all, so it's not rape! And they're Big Strong Badass Women, too, so why can't I do the same? Of course it's not rape, because I LUUUUV all of you penii men!"
Granted, that's a totally shitty way of trying to justify what still basically equates to rape, but given Anita's thrown herself and the poor sobbing plot to the Cooch Monster...