You are exactly right. She seems to think liking sex is the same thing as being sexually aggressive and being a "progressive" woman, which explains why both LKH and Anita call any of her critics jealous prudes. It's also hilarious that she thinks her sex scenes are risque and kinky when in fact, they are all the same boring positions with no variations or toys involved. It's almost always the same: oral, then talking, then either missionary or doggystyle, then more talking. Yup. Totally kinky.