Everything prior to her actually orgasming is how a victim feels in that kind of situation. And I do not see anybody fantasizing about going through that. You do not get over that emotional trauma in an hour. Or in a couple of days, months, years, whatever.

I think that's why Anita never reacts that way again in any of the times after this that she is raped. Yes, she is raped again. And rapes other people. And sometimes they're raping each other at the same time because someone else is controlling them/their bodies or their beasts are (she turns out to be a non-shifting panwere with a zoo of inner beasts) or the ardeur is. And no one seems to ever be traumatized and it rarely even gets called rape.