I'm actually not much of a slash fan, either, but for crying out loud, if I'm going to complain about her being sexually immature about the entire thing, I'm going to genuinely USE all of it where it fits.

These guys would be doing all that and a whole lot more, and not making a single appology for it, either.

I'd just love to see a female character who really does that, and well, and isn't cast as a slut or a bad girl.

Or hell, at least give me a virgin who's good at being that/has OTHER reasons for wanting to be that besides for that damned Madonna/whore complex.