I admit that I sort of have a knee-jerk, "Woo!" at her no-cheating/A++ communication section -- but that's personal bias. My ex had an affair for six+ months and then did the, "But I love you both so much! I really just think I'm poly," thing after confessing. His hope was that apparently I would come around on the poly thing (we would talk about it every so often) and then he could just fold her into our marriage. -_-; So, I admit to having a messed up relationship with discussion of polyamory. Because I'm cool with everyone doing what makes them happy, but the discussions always takes me right back there.

That said, I laughed outloud at, "You can google Polyamory, too, but don't believe everything you read." Oh LKH, I don't think you have any sense of irony at all.