Or just shaming women in general. It's amazing to hear this sort of thing come from a woman who writes books where other women are not as perfect and beautiful as her own avatar. Either they're too fake, wearing too much make-up or not enough, they're 'boys with breasts' or obvious plastic surgery, too blond or dyed black hair, clothes are too baggy severe or too revealing and slutty. No woman is really ever good enough for Anita, yet LKH has the sheer gall to tell us to love ourselves for who we are when Anita rags on every woman she meets for the most absurd and sexist reasons?!