Anita doesn't love anyone as an equal, and doesn't understand even being polite to someone you don't want to fuck, let alone "loving" them. People talk about how she defeated the MOAD with the power of love, but she didn't; she defeated the MOAD with the power of enjoying sex with her various walking dildos. Since the MOAD did not understand enjoying sex, Anita won through that. It wasn't love. And she's very clear about thinking "love" is based purely on appearance.

This is LKH's self-insert.