"Jon & I just celebrated our third anniversary of dating our girlfriend, Genevieve. I am also seeing the other man in her life, Spike"
So...
SHE boinks dates her husband (I believe his name is Jon).
SHE boinks dates their girlfriend, Genevieve, with this Jon guy (her husband, IIRC).
SHE boinks dates Gen's boyfriend, Spike.
Apparently her husband, Jon, and their girlfriend's boyfriend, Spike, do not boink date each other.

Remember when it appeared that she was basing the Anitaverse on her life? Doesn't it seem as though she's now trying really, really hard to convince us that she's now basing her life on Anita's life instead?