Look, they were just using us for mediocre sex anyway, and frankly it's all we deserve. We're uptight prudes, or else slutty slut sluts who have sex with more than one person without LOVING MORE them, so it's different when Anita does it. We may also commit sins of being tall, blonde, OR looking nearly the same as Anita but less beautiful and amazing in every way. In any case, we simply cannot expect our beloved to stick around. We can probably find some more suitable, inferior man out there, far far from Anita's orbit of awesome. Nobody really cares anyway.