Yeah, that's her oddball morality. If a woman has sex with a man and she's not in wuv troo wuv with him then she's a dirty slut. So, Anita has to have these men all metaphysically bound to her someway and she's forced to have sex with them, to save their lives, other lives, whatever the emergency of the day is. It wouldn't surprise me if LaLa applied the same strange view of sex to her own life.