Look, I lost my dad when I was really young too. I think about him, and sometimes I wonder what he would think of me as an adult, but it happened 2 and a half decades ago and I'm really over it. If I recall, LKH is 50-ish so she lost her mom 4 and a helf decades ago. Let it go, KIttenpants, you'll be happier.
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Ugh, LKH, ugh.........