And the thing I don't get is, in ID, Anita levelled up enough to go, "Shit, *I* control the ardeur, it does not control me!" but it's still there and she still has to feed it, but now she's got some choice into who and how she feeds.

So everything else from that point on is pure bullshit. Obviously, LKH lost her sticky note that had this on it. *facepalm*