Facebook flog - Oct 18 2013

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Link: Oct 18 2013, 14:15
Disclaimer: This blog entry is verbatim, as originally posted on LKH's Facebook. Copyright belongs to Ma Petite Enterprises.

First, thank you so much for all the positive feedback. It was wonderful to hear from so many other poly people - we are not alone! :-) But also loved hearing from so many people who weren't poly, but were still supportive of our choice to have a lifestyle that wasn't theirs. It was refreshing and awesome to see so much good stuff in the comments.

Thank you, also, to all the women who offered to date me, and to the women who wrote things that made my on-line security person delete your posts . . . I'm flattered, but the reason I say, I'm heteroflexible, and not bisexual is that other than Genevieve, our girlfriend, I still don't seem that interested in women. She maybe my one exception. We've been dating her for several years, so sorry, ladies, but I seem to be a one woman, sorta girl.

And for some of the other comments, it's not just the three of us in a closed poly threesome. There are other people in our lives. (Closed poly means however many people are in your poly group 3 to 50, that you can't bring new people in without the group permission, and they usually get veto on lovers, or play partners) I found it very interesting that once I used the word "girlfriend" almost everyone assumed that there were no other men, besides Jon. Particularly interesting since I mentioned Goth boys in the first paragraph.

Also, thanks for asking, but we won't be posting pictures of Genevieve anytime soon. She's a very private person, and I respect that privacy. I got her permission before posting the Goth girl post.

Thank you again for all the positive energy. You guys rock!

Comments

[deadsong.livejournal.com]

Considering her campaign to show us she's a desirable as Merita, I'm amazed she doesn't talk about more men hitting on her. But I guess women hitting on her (even if yeah, I agree with your reasons as to why she's probably lying/dramatizing) is what makes her edgy now. Plus we need that reminder that she/her avatar is just another man with breasts, so of course women are flocking to her manliness and swooning over her.

Waitwaitwait. I haven't read this abomination of a story...LKH has Anita tell us what? I...I don't even. I can't with this shit today. I give up on trying to figure out how she thinks, as if I keep trying my brain will melt out my ears.

[lliira (from livejournal.com)]

Here's the quote: "We'd learned a lot about each other, but unless we were looking to date, I didn't see the point."

[deadsong.livejournal.com]

I keep reading that and hoping every time I do, it will somehow magically make sane, logical sense from the standpoint of adult reasoning, in which people can comprehend having a deeply personal platonic relationship with a friend where dating and sex aren't even on the table, and that's okay.

It's not working.

~reads it again~

Yeah. Nope. Not working.

[lliira (from livejournal.com)]

It's even worse than that. She's only talked with this woman over one meal. So she doesn't see the point of even being friendly with someone unless pursuing sex with them.

[deadsong.livejournal.com]

Deep breaths. Deep breaths. I will not get all rantyface. I will not get all rantyfa--

Okay, no. NO. Just no. I refuse this. What kind of deluded wankery is--I don't even--

THIS IS WHAT HAPPENS WHEN YOU SPEND SO LONG GAZING INTO YOUR AVATAR'S NAVEL THAT YOUR WORK BECOMES NARCISSISTIC PARODY FANFICTION OF ITSELF WITH NOT EVEN AN ATTEMPT TO PORTRAY HOW REAL PEOPLE THINK OR ACT.

Deep, deep breaths...

[lliira (from livejournal.com)]

The story does read like a parody by someone who hates LKH with the fire of ten thousand suns.

[genchaos.livejournal.com]

Good god. She's so manly-man she can whine about friendzoning the way creepy Nice Guys(tm) do about women?!

[subtle-shades.livejournal.com]

...it's not just Nice Guys who do that... Nice Girls are a thing too.

[genchaos.livejournal.com]

Dammit. One of those times I hoped something was gender-restricted.

[subtle-shades.livejournal.com]

LOL Sorry?