You see I kind of took her comment about cattiness another way. That people, at least some people, characterize a critical outspoken woman as "just being catty" thus minimizing their criticism. And it's far more likely for a woman's critique be diminished in this way while a man's critique is taken seriously. I really don't think it was a slam against women who are "sugar and spice and everything nice" (but who really is :P).
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Date: 2010-08-21 04:11 pm (UTC)