I've got my grandmother telling me all the time that it doesn't matter if I think I'm too selfish to have kids -- that once I have them, my love for them will make me into a good mom.
It's so nice to see someone who understands that being unselfish should come before the baby-having, not (wishfully) as a result of it.
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Date: 2007-05-14 09:17 pm (UTC)I've got my grandmother telling me all the time that it doesn't matter if I think I'm too selfish to have kids -- that once I have them, my love for them will make me into a good mom.
It's so nice to see someone who understands that being unselfish should come before the baby-having, not (wishfully) as a result of it.