I thought I'd mentioned we had a girlfriend on FB, from the responses, apparently not. I've mentioned it on twitter, and as other comments noted on my RIDDIT interview this year. REDDIT. It's REDDIT.
No, I'm not bisexual, if I was she wouldn't be the first girlfriend I'd ever had. Jon and I like the term Heteroflexible. [...] Before someone asks, NO, none of the people I've dated past, or present have been used as basis for my fictional characters - note the word fictional. ...*taps fingers on computer* Really. That's why Anita acquired a girlfriend and declared herself ~heteroflexible~ at around the same time?
And yay, ~heteroflexible~. Also known as 'This doesn't make me gay! This doesn't make me gay bi! I'm a good straight girl! Totally! J-just ~flexible~!' -_-;; Suuure, LKH. Sure.
Poly has only one real rule, everyone is supposed to know what everyone is doing, or who they're doing. No lying, no cheating, but just communication of epic proportions. Which is why Micah was fucking his way through the Furry Coalition?
If you're prone to jealousy, please do not attempt poly. If you want to sleep with other people, do not bully your spouse into being poly with you, if you aren't so much poly as just wanting to fuck-about. In other words, Anita isn't poly and shouldn't get anywhere near it. Good to have confirmation from the author herself!
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Date: 2013-10-15 04:55 pm (UTC)REDDIT. It's REDDIT.
No, I'm not bisexual, if I was she wouldn't be the first girlfriend I'd ever had. Jon and I like the term Heteroflexible. [...] Before someone asks, NO, none of the people I've dated past, or present have been used as basis for my fictional characters - note the word fictional.
...*taps fingers on computer* Really. That's why Anita acquired a girlfriend and declared herself ~heteroflexible~ at around the same time?
And yay, ~heteroflexible~. Also known as 'This doesn't make me gay! This doesn't make me
gaybi! I'm a good straight girl! Totally! J-just ~flexible~!' -_-;; Suuure, LKH. Sure.Poly has only one real rule, everyone is supposed to know what everyone is doing, or who they're doing. No lying, no cheating, but just communication of epic proportions.
Which is why Micah was fucking his way through the Furry Coalition?
If you're prone to jealousy, please do not attempt poly. If you want to sleep with other people, do not bully your spouse into being poly with you, if you aren't so much poly as just wanting to fuck-about.
In other words, Anita isn't poly and shouldn't get anywhere near it. Good to have confirmation from the author herself!