I remember the blog of hers from a few months(?) back where she said that a top was the dominant one in a relationship all the time, and that the bottom was always submissive, and that's how things were all the time unless the bottom was one of those nasty ones that basically tried to have an opinion of their own.
The bit where Merita claws the hell out of herself and whoever else is around her, no matter if they've said they don't want clawed or whatnot, seems off to me. I think it's mostly that she doesn't focus on, attempt to enjoy, or even really register the pain she's inflicting on herself or others.
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Date: 2007-05-09 11:32 pm (UTC)The bit where Merita claws the hell out of herself and whoever else is around her, no matter if they've said they don't want clawed or whatnot, seems off to me. I think it's mostly that she doesn't focus on, attempt to enjoy, or even really register the pain she's inflicting on herself or others.