That's so it. That the dominant is actually the care-taker, they have to respect the submissive (whether it be by not going beyond their boundaries, or gently pushing their boundaries so that they can grow). Anita doesn't take care of her men. She doesn't respect their needs, wants and boundaries. She inflicts upon them her own needs, wants and boundaries and That Is The Law.
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Date: 2007-05-10 06:48 am (UTC)